I really want to know what married life is like?

i've been married 7 years. and believe me it is still hard work. i love my husband to death but sometimes i feel like killing him and i think he feels the same. is when ever we have time life keeps us both busy. we have four children that has us going 24/7. we try to do things together to help us be a strong family. in my opinion marriage is just a word. people don't value it anymore. the only thing i will say is that it is a full time job